Causality…

Causality  – tis the relation between an event (the cause) and a second event (the effect) where the second event is understood as a physical consequence of the first.

Mock me if you will but the Matrix franchise of movies has always been one of my favourites.

The Matrix Reloaded – not my favourite of the franchise still had an amazing scene in which the Merovingian explains the concept of causality – one of my favourites scenes – but I digress.

Don’t worry -I am not turning this Blog into a who’s who in movies etc – I was motivated/inspired this evening.

It’s funny how all these random thoughts come to me at night feed. It must be the relaxation on knowing that it is the end of my day where I go out in the cold (yep it’s chilly here today) to feed my charges.  Munch munch munch – I love that sound.

We have all done some pretty stupid things – poor choice of words – sorry- made some less that favourable decisions on our lives.

I myself have made some pretty stupid decisions. Getting married too young – not finishing school – having a child too young  – staying married too long.

But that is where causality kicks in. Had I not gotten married too young – I would have finished school and perhaps been a lawyer – where I may not have met my ex husband which would have caused me to not get pregnant and have a child (my daughter – my best friend) leading me to be essentially dependant on someone (silly girl) to get pregnant again (my son – my best friend) – leading me to get separated and divorced – leading me to meet hubs – to have my current job to be sitting here writing this post.

Cause and effect!

For every action – there is a reaction – positive or negative all depends on the reaction.

One must make the decisions that are right for them. Not worrying about what others will think or say or do.

It is great to have someone to depend on for sure – I love that feeling to know that someone has my back – no matter what. But in the end – One makes that decision that is best for them.

I once made the mistake of telling someone to NEVER rely on anyone else – that was after the end of a marriage. Never rely on someone else financially – emotionally – totally. I was bitter and it was bad advice. 

It is OK to rely on someone else – when that someone really loves you and you know if the situation were reversed – you would do the same for them – it is absolutely 100 frigging percent OK.

I am actually not sure the point that I am trying to make here.

Causality – cause and effect – action reaction.

My point – my point – I guess I really don’t have a point.

It’s OK to make mistakes – it’s OK to do what is right for you to fix them  -it’s OK to rely on others – it’s OK to maintain your individuality – it’s OK to know yourself – it’s OK to be taken care of by someone.

On the back end of this – I have the day off tomorrow SCORE!!!! – I am going to sleep in and come hell or high water we will finish that wall this weekend.

I have a road trip to the Windy City come Sunday – sigh – I do hate being away from home.